Family Issues



Find out how dysfunctional family can influence your life and your personality.

Did you know that depending on what order you were born in you played a certain Role in your Family ?
In healthy families it is normal to get to play most of these roles and to get to learn how to grow up healthy and normal.
 
However, in Dysfunctional Families these Roles are usually something very Rigid and you get locked into one. This rigidity of Roles is one of the major causes for peoples’ issues. And by becoming more aware of these functions and discussing these things and learning to make the necessary changes you get to live more Freely and Flexibly and to make Wise Decisions of your own, without being locked into an unhelpful or even possibly harmful Role.
 
Ask Yourself some of these Questions :
 
Do you find yourself stuck ? Confused ?
Wondering why you keep dating the same kinds of people ?
Why you seem to find yourself getting into the same old arguments and fights ?
Ending up in the same dead end jobs or superficial or abusive relationships that are unsatisfying at best and a nightmare at worst. 
Are you still playing a Role from the Past, perhaps even a Role placed upon you by your Family ?
Are you still acting out those feelings of Anger, Fear, Resentment, Distrust, Confusion ?
Which of these Roles seems more like the ones you played :
 
Did you feel the need to SAVE your Family ?
Whether because of Shame or Financial difficulty or other reasons ?
Did you play the Hero who had to save your Family Reputation by being ultra Successful ( at the cost of your own childhood ? )
Were you forced to grow up way too soon because of various reasons ?
Made to be the Grown Up because SOMEONE had to be Responsible ?
How do you feel about this ?
Did you Distract from the Family Troubles by becoming more of a Problem yourself ?
 
Were you pressured or encouraged to act out and get into trouble
so that it took away the focus on your Family’s Dysfunction ?
 
The Scapegoat who can take the Blame for the entire family ?
Was this fair to you ? And are you still playing this role ?
 
Isn’t that bourdon something you want to lift from your tired and aching shoulders ?
 
Or did you Distract from your Family Arguments by being the cute, funny one
who made others laugh or did silly or clumsy things that
stopped the arguments and brought the attention on you.
 
Do you still feel this NEED for Attention ? A need that cannot be filled and which
tends to get you into trouble or at least prevents you from
being taken seriously.
 
Could it be that you became practically invisible ? You lost yourself in books, or
movies, video games, music or other often solitary hobbies and interests.
 
Do you still feel invisible and do you prefer this or do you feel you need to
get away to be alone in order to just
feel safe and secure.
 
And if you were an Only Child, like me, then you had to play ALL the Roles
and yet were not so much flexible as forced to juggle
all of these.
 
No pressure there, right ? No stress or worries ?
 
You’re fine, right ? You are a Man and you can take it! Stop being a cry baby!
 
You’re a grown Woman not a little girl so grow up and be Responsible!
 
Have a successful career and a healthy marriage and oh, by the way where are
my Grandchildren ? Don’t you love me ? You know I won’t be around
forever so you better get started, dear.
 

Agghhhh! Is it really any wonder that we live in such Chaotic times ?
 
Many of us were raised by
parents who never resolved their own issues
and so these problems, troubles and issues repeat themselves throughout
Generations until almost every Family is in some way Dysfunctional.
 
And from my studies and my curiosity in meeting people I discovered
that these Roles and Issues are similar regardless of your
Country or Culture of origin ( some are even MORE Restrictive and Repressive so you have
even more of a need to take care of these issues NOW! )

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